It's funny how much you can learn about yourself through your children. My dad used to always say that we played games by my rules and that if I didn't win, I pouted. I don't remember that...but one does pick and choose what details they want to remember.
Dad, I get it now. I can't change the past but I can be patient and teach the bears that it's not always about winning the game but how you play the game...or something like that. Yeah, I'm still learning too.